by Supanya Sosut

If you are out to get more women into your life, then you definitely should try to do the right things. When dating, men tend to make a lot of mistakes that will eventually cost them what could be a beautiful relationship. Here are some examples of where men go wrong:

  1. Acting arrogantly. Women love confidence, but they hate arrogance and excessive male bravado. Don’t promote yourself too aggressively. If you have good qualities, a woman will see them and sense them whether or not you display them actively.

  2. Me, Me, Me. When talking, don’t center the conversation on yourself excessively. If she asks about you, answer politely, but steer the conversation to her as soon as you can.

  3. Ignoring signals. Women are notoriously more indirect than men, so if you want to have any chance of success with your date, you had better learn to read the signs. There is no easy way of acquiring this faculty; you can read about them, but you probably will have to have to gain more experience in order to understand most signals correctly. However, do what it takes to understand what your date is telling you nonverbally.

  4. Being passive. A large majority of women hate passivity. They want their men to take charge of the situation, to be able to make decisions. A lot of women can be indecisive, so when you are indecisive along with them, it just does not help the situation. For example, when you go out on a date, arrange all the details. Surprise her. She will appreciate it when you “take her out” and she didn’t have to worry about any of the details. When dating, stay in charge. She’ll love you for it.

  5. Moving “too fast.” Men often think that just because they paid for their dinner’s date, they are entitled to some physical contact. If this is you, try changing your perspective. If your money was supposed to get you in bed, perhaps you shouldn’t have gone to a date – perhaps you should’ve just gotten someone who does this sort of thing for a living. If you are a half-decent man, you will not push things too quickly. Be sensitive to the needs of your date, and move along on her pace.

  6. Negative thinking. No, not all women are about looks, or about money. If you believe this about women, you are handicapping yourself, especially if you are not particularly handsome or rich. Instead, understand that there are plenty of women who want love – real love. If you can provide that, there is absolutely nothing they will deny you. Also, don’t think that a date will fail even before it starts. If you do, chances are high that it will.

  7. Being Mr. Nice Guy. It’s possible to carry the “nice guy” image too far. If you become too friendly with your date, you run the risk of being just her friend, not her boyfriend. When dating, try to keep a balance between being friendly and being romantic.

By avoiding these dating mistakes, you will attract more women into your life. And who knows? You just might find that one special girl that you have been looking for your entire life.

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